Sunday, November 9, 2008

A Liberal Christian?

I have recently gotten into some in depth political discussions with some friends on Facebook. I am shocked about how much we differ! I especially find it ironic that several of us share the same faith, which has lead someone to ask me how I can justify my vote alongside Christianity. I was even portrayed as some anti-American, cold-hearted crazy lady, which is completely not me. (Crazy - yeah, sure; anti-American or cold-hearted - actually quite the opposite!) Since I had typed so much, I thought I cut and paste in order to would share some of it here as well. These are in response to questions asked of me. If you choose to read it, it will give a you a huge glimpse of what a "Christian liberal" looks like!

The truth is that I am just a good ol' small-town, Christ-following girl who grew up hunting and farming on our land - much like many Republicans - yet my morals, conscious, and Christian values point me more to the Democratic side. I come from a family of hard-working Democrats, including my grandfather who was a very pro-union tool and die maker for General Dynamics. We never had a lot, yet always felt that we were still more well off than many others. I show love to my neighbors (whether or not they believe the same as me), and feel the call to respond to the needs of the poor, weak, and oppressed just the way the Bible says that we should. I refer back to the Word of the Lord in Matthew 25 - "I tell you the truth, whatever you did for THE LEAST OF THESE, you did for me." I also respect ALL people, whether or not I personally agree with them or their lifestyle, just as Christ has called me to do. I have dear friends who are Republican as well as who are Democrats, who are straight as well as who are gay/lesbian, who are Christian as well as of other Religious views (Muslim, Buddhist, etc - and even Atheist), who are American-Caucasian like me as well as friends from multiple other countries and of every "color".... that list can go on and on - but the sum of it is I am tolerant.

"The Constitution says government can't restrict [guns/ammo]."


Sure, the Constitution states that we have a right to bear arms, and nobody will take that away. People just differ on HOW MUCH to control guns - but EVERYONE does believe in some form of "gun control." For example, do what want your child's teacher to keep a gun in his or her desk just in case the kids get unruly? Of course not! She does not "need" that, and it would be absurd to allow it, even if she does "want" it. But some could argue "isn't that her right?!" I just personally don't feel, like I have previously stated, every yahoo out there needs to have easy access to assault riffles. Nobody really needs an M4 Carbine lying around their home - sorry. (I do agree that they can still get them if they want, but why make it any easier.)

Again, I am actually PRO GUN! Along the lines of NRA, I have no problems with the organization as a whole. They do some good things, but to have Obama's picture on the cover of the magazine implies to people that he will indeed take all of their guns away, which is not truthful. As I have stated, we own guns, have them in our home, and I grew up around them my entire life. I colored the Eddie Eagle coloring sheets and had the "Stop, Leave the area, Tell an adult" motto drilled though my head (does anyone else remember those?!), and will be teaching my boys the same.

I think Rachel Maddow must bother some to the extent Rush bothers me - I enjoy Rachel Maddow (I don't personally hear any "outright cruelty" from her; her wit and sarcasm make me smile and chuckle a little inside), yet Rush and especially Levin get my blood boiling.

When a person says "you" to mean "liberals" as described in the manner above, they are actually making a HUGE stereo-typical generalization in which I will argue and take offense. I have 100% RESPECT for ANYONE who has served our country in any capacity. Although I don't agree with the war at hand, those soldiers are just doing their job, and many don't agree with the war either. I do not know of anyone personally who has had anything less than respect for a soldier who is "just doin' what they're told," but am sadly aware that those people do exist. On the other hand, I do not think every "conservative" has blown up a Planned Parenthood site or killed a doctor who performs such procedure, even though those people sadly exist too. There are obviously extremes on both sides.

ON THAT NOTE...

I don't think I can make it clear enough that I am anti-abortion. It PERSONALLY saddens my heart and quite frankly makes me sick to my stomach - in any trimester. (As a matter of fact, we are about to celebrate one year of having Gabe in our lives, just as we did with Jacob and Caleb when they were 2 1/2 months old!) HOWEVER, just as it is not anyone's place to take away your guns, it is not our place to prohibit anyone having an abortion as long as Roe v. Wade is still in place. I value the sanctity of life (just like the lives of those serving in Iraq and the blood shed from innocent Iraqi children, women, and men) and, being a nurse and Momma, know full well that the heart begins beating in 18 days - a time before most women know that they are pregnant. I understand that, however, since abortion is indeed legal, it is not my place to tell a woman that she "cannot" choose that path. It's only my right to make her aware of other options if she allows me to do so, and then pray. If a woman does choose abortion, she is not therefore a monster, just a fellow Child of God who needs some love and support through a undoubtedly difficult time in her life.

In addition (and this is a HUGE one for me), the Republican Party has had multiple opportunities to overturn Roe v. Wade (when they had control of the House, Senate, AND Presidency for 6 years), yet has not done so. Therefore, why in the world would I vote for them on merely one issue (which is not being addressed) when there are SO MANY more issues out there (HEALTH CARE, human rights, the economy, etc)?

Abortions did occur prior to 1973, and would still occur even if RvW was overturned. They are at an all-time low now (have been in decline continuously for 20 years), mostly because entities such as Planned Parenthood are available to give women other options.

And for the record, I am a supporter of BOTH Planned Parenthood AND area Pregnancy Resource Centers. I would love to make every woman aware of all of their options before choosing an abortion, yet am an even stronger advocate of preventing "unwanted" or "unplanned" (I hate those terms) pregnancies in the first place through more effective sex-ed/birth control rather than abstinence only education. I'd be great if everyone waited until they were ready for and wanted a child to have sex, yet it's not reality, so why not make teens and adults alike aware of other options! After all, many abortions do occur in MARRIED women who just don't want a child at that time. The biggest goal of PPNT is advocating the right of every person to receive education and proper birth control to actually PREVENT abortions from occurring.

Do you consider good, old fashion birth control pills to be a form of abortion? I am not being sarcastic there! By strict definition, they do cause very early abortions, yet many pro-lifers are on them... just curious...

*WHEW* I feel better now that I've justified my stance! I am open and would love to hear other views as well. Like I mentioned, I am TOLERANT of my fellow man. This really is all very interesting to me.

Thanks to those who made it this far!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Go Vote!

We took these pics in our Obama/USA gear to encourage all of you to get out and vote today!

Remember my post from back in March...


My name is Amber Seastrunk, and I approve this message...



Don't forget...

Get off of your... AND VOTE!!




Whether you're an elephant or a donkey, get out there today to cast your oh so important vote!

Paid for by, uhhh, I guess Jon Seastrunk, my husband, since he works to pay our bills, including the internet connection.


Thursday, October 30, 2008

No painting pumpkins for Gabe

Since Gabriel didn't get to paint pumpkins with us this year, I thought I'd throw in a few cute recent pictures of him. He is getting SO BIG, and has really starting becoming expressive and such a smiley little guy.


Taking a nice, warm bath.


A big cheesy grin!


Hanging out for a little "tummy time" in the Boppy.


Saying "hi" to big sister, Abby.

Painting Precious Petite Pumpkins

Just had to thrown in a little alliteration for my fellow dorks. ;-)

Last Sunday, the weather was beautiful, so we took the boys out back to paint pumpkins. They had a great time! I think they enjoyed playing outside and IN the paint more than the actual process of putting it on pumpkins, but it was FUN for all of us nonetheless.


Wonder what Mommy and Daddy are setting up over there... maybe they'll let us get in the swings!!


Hurry, bro, they're calling for us...


... and they have PUMPKINS!!


What is this stuff?


Paint?
Caleb, as always, is VERY curious as to what is going on.


Jacob loves wiping it on Daddy's arms - not so much on the pumpkins!


Then he got curious as to if it is edible... and Mommy thanks God it is NON-TOXIC!


Jacob soon wanted to get up, enjoy the beautiful day, and run around. (It is so good to see the boys running now after not walking for so long.)


Got Mommy!!


Wow, bro, we did a good job!

Another blog soon to come to wrap up the month... like I mentioned, October has been a whirlwind of chaos! But a lot of good times did happen.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Our big date!

Remember the date that I mentioned several weeks ago? Well, with the whirlwind October we had, I am just now getting around to posting some pic from our first date since having all three boys!

I had mentioned that it was out of character for us to go out while the Cowboys were playing... but this should all explain it.

Yes, Jon took me to see the Cowboys vs. Bengals!!



I got to see Texas Stadium in it's last season. :-(



We got lots of great pictures, but here are a few favorites:



Romo!!



Two of my favorite current players: #80 - Martellus Bennett (Tellus!!) and #81 - Terrell Owens (T.O.!!) Yup, I didn't like him when he first came to Dallas, but ol' T.O. is starting to grow on me. Tellus was my favorite Aggie player last season - and now he is one of my favorite Cowboys.



America's Sweethearts! Did y'all know that I seriously almost tried out to be a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader in 2001?! I (unknowingly at the time) took dance classes with some of the girls at the Dallas Powerhouse of Dance. After one of the classes, one of the girls made the comment "you're pretty good - are you planning on trying out?" Huh - try out for WHAT? She said that a lot of girls came to that class as a prep before try-outs for the D.C.C. (as well as for the Mavs Dance Team). I just laughed... but then I really thought about it. I met all of the qualifications (at the time): could dance and do the splits all three way, had abs of steal, could high kick, and had time on my hands in the evening/weekends. Yeah, I chickened out - afraid that I wouldn't make it. But I do regret at least not trying when I had the chance. You know, before I had three kids who destroyed my tummy that could be shown in the little uniforms! LOL!



I am "smooshing" Texas Stadium. (Yeah, I am a dork!)

We had a blast hanging out together for the afternoon - and The 'Boys won 31 - 22!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

The Seastrunks of Oz

First of all, we went to a Halloween Party at my parents' neighborhood... and here's a quick view of the costumes:


LIONS, AND, TIGERS, AND BEARS - - OH MY!!!

I had fun photoshopping this picture to make it just like we were in the set of The Wizard of Oz. There will be more to come, but I'll wait to tie in the ones from Halloween night too.

Our littlest punkin' is already two months!

He had his Check-up appointment on Monday and is:

12 pounds, 3 ounces and 23.5 inches long - which puts him at 75% for both height and weight.


Oh, and he just keeps getting cuter!


He loves his swing!


Smile, Gabe!


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Unfortunately, I can't get a great smile picture with him looking at the camera!


Such a sweet, silly little dude!


LOVE the outfit here! Cool shirt and even cooler "shoes" (or as Caleb always calls them, "booohes").

I am a little behind with blogging now, as we had a ROUGH few weeks - including losing my uncle on October 9th and my mom having parathyroid surgery on October 16th.

My uncle Tommy was/is a great, fun-loving man who will be missed by friends and family too numerous to mention. (The funeral was standing room only!) If you think about them, please pray for my aunt, Cindy, and cousins Cody, Tempress (Cody's wife), Tyler (who is a Freshman in College), Kelby (a Freshman in High School), and sweet little Brenley Kye (Cody and Tempress' 13 month old baby girl - Tommy's beloved granddaughter). They need peace and healing right now - and for a long time yet to come.

On a happier note, I know that the ONLY reason the 'Horns pulled out the win this past weekend was that Tommy had a talk with the Big Man to make a MIRACLE! (He was a HUGE Texas Longhorn fan, and we liked given each other a hard time!) I must admit, however, I truly had a hard time pulling against the Longhorn - JUST THIS ONCE - in honor of my Uncle Tommy. BUT, I will NOT admit that to him when we see each other again one day... hehehe

My mom's surgery went GREAT. It will most likely take a few more weeks to get back to herself, but she's overall recovering well. It ended up being a little less invasive than we had thought it could be, but she does still have an incision across her neck. *ouch!*

I think we are back to our normal level of craziness again. LOL!

More to come about Jon and I's date a few weeks back, our trip to College Station, and Halloween!

Monday, October 20, 2008

Oh, yes, I AM going there!!

I have been biting my tongue for months, and am afraid I am about to need stitches. ;-)

This is something that I am thinking about often lately, so have to get it off of my chest. I have lived in Texas my entire life, so I know how people are and that Obama doesn't stand a chance IN TEXAS. Whether it be for racial reasons - which many people have sadly admitted to me IS the case for their vote, the thought that he might be "Muslin" (HAHAHA - yes, the spelling is that way for a reason), or you have "always" voted Republican... I honestly cannot understand it.

However I feel that if McCain does win, America and the economy spirals even more, and more "boys" lose their lives in the "Bush/McCain 100 Year War," I wouldn't be able to live with myself knowing that I didn't give it at least a fighting chance.


Seriously, a MUSLIN?! Idiots!!!

After talking with many people about politics this year, I am seeing that people are voting how they think they are "suppose to," without knowing the real issues behind each candidate. Sadly to say, most women are voting the way that they are based on what their husbands or pastors have said. Please, ladies, stand up for yourself and know all of the issues rather than merely going with what someone else thinks!!!

Remember: you are not voting on the person that you'd most like to go fishing with, or having a latte with... you are voting on the person best suited to run our country.

I went and early voted today, and I couldn't get over all of the Lexus SUVs and BMWs with McCain/Palin stickers in the parking lot. Perhaps if we had enough money lying around to justify an expensive car, then we too could be "rich" enough to be for McCain! Instead of having a large house, expensive cars, and lots of "toys," we have to put money aside for three college educations, retirement, and in case something happens to either Jon or myself. I mean, the economy is so screwed up, there is zero room to blow money in the budget!



On many occasions McCain has stated that the fundamentals of our economy are... strong. *Gasp, cough, HUH?!* I am not sure which economy he is referring...

Even though we had a balanced budget 8 years ago, our economy is now in the worst state ever since the Great Depression! WOW! Bush has been so focused on the war in Iraq (A COMPLETELY unjustified war - Afghanistan, yes - Iraq, NO!) that he has clearly neglected our economy. Yet, McCain openly admits that he agreed with Bush 90% of the time. Let me spell that a different way - NINETY PERCENT!! I mean, what more damage could he do in 4 more years?!



Seriously, did you ever stop to wonder WHY the McCain/Palin campaign is really wanting to talk about Obama's "character" rather than real issues that should be of top priority this election? Perhaps it is because they don't want to go there, knowing both McCain and Palin's track record!

And Sarah Palin, bless her heart...



Palin might be a funny girl, but if something happens to McCain (and, sorry, but let's face it, he is 72 years old), would you trust HER judgment to run this country? Either she doesn't know her facts before stating them (scary) or just blatantly lies in attempt to hope that people are naive enough to take her at her word (even scarier). Sarah Palin honestly scares me - and not just because she's packin' heat. ;-) She calls herself a feminist - does she think that being a woman automatically makes her a feminist?

Abortion... I debated doing it, but I am going to go there! My friends know how I feel about abortion personally, so I won't go into great detail here (but do feel free to ask if you don't know). You all know I LOVE BABIES - I mean, I have not one, not two, but THREE of them!! HOWEVER, I do have to say that I don't think it is a big enough issue to base my decision EXCLUSIVELY. LET ME EXPLAIN BEFORE YOU GET ALL UPSET! If abortion is the ONLY reason you are voting for the Republican Party, you might want to think twice. The Republicans were in control of not only the Presidency, but also the House and Senate for several years. If they were going to overturn Roe v. Wade, wouldn't they have done it by now? Sadly to say, I feel that many of the Republicans keep using that POWERFUL heart tug on people so that they can keep the votes/support. BUT THEY AREN'T REALLY DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT! Therefore, I am not going to keep on letting our economy slide, the lower middle class suffer, and needless, unjustified wars progress even further based on ONE ISSUE (albeit, yes, a big one).

McCain made a promise in his acceptance speech at the Republican National Convention: "Change is coming." God, help us, I really, wholeheartedly hope so...

I really cannot understand, but would like to. I am a very open minded person, yet have been honestly grasping to find some sort of reasoning as to why anyone would vote for McCain/Palin. Could one of my many McCain/Palin supporting friends PLEASE explain it to me, as I feel that I must be missing something. As you all know, I feel that everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but I truly do just want to understand. No judgment... Any takers? Comments, emails, and calls are welcome - and highly encouraged!